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Ashland sisters Dondi (left) and Titanya Dahlin share a love of belly dancing.

Ashland Daily Tidings
~DENISE BARATTA


Dondi & Titanya


Belly, Belly Good

By Troy Heie
Ashland Daily Tidings

Their work takes them to exotic locales around the globe, from smoke-filled tavernas to high-class resorts where they practice the ancient art of belly dancing.

And they're Ashland High grads.

Titanya and Dondi Dahlin, AHS graduates, are not your ordinary alumni. The sisters, daughters of well-known holistic healer and part-time Ashland resident Donna Eden, returned to the city last week to visit their mother.

And it was a simple message from mom that played a large part in Dondi's safe return to the United States from her latest belly dancing job in Amman, the capital of Jordan.

"She told me not to travel after the 10th (of September)," Dondi said. "She had a feeling."

The feeling was frighteningly accurate. A day after Dondi arrived in the U.S., unthinkable terror struck on the East Coast.

Now Dondi is mulling contract offers in December in the United Arab Emirates and Oman, two oil-rich nations in the Persian Gulf roughly 500 miles from the Afghanistan border. She has heard enough about Osama bin Laden during her two visits to the Middle East since 1998 to know that she must be careful in deciding whether to return this winter.

"I have to wait to see what happens on their end (in the Gulf)," she said. "Osama bin Laden has said he will target Americans wherever they are. That's a bit scary."

Dondi finished a four-week stint at the Regency Palace resort in Jordan last month. It was her third trip to the region as a professional belly dancer. She first went to the United Arab Emirates in 1998 on a belly dancing contract and then traveled last spring to perform and teach in Turkey.

The Dahlin sisters began their dancing quest early on, both learning Polynesian dance techniques at the ages of 5 and 8. They grew up in Southern California but moved to Ashland in 1980, where they furthered their dance repertoire by studying Middle Eastern dance from two local teachers, Kristy Gault and Loucianne Estes.



 

Dondi in one of her costumes
They were hooked. After graduating from Ashland High, the sisters would find themselves in places like Germany, Switzerland and Australia, dancing the days away for good money.

But mastering the art of belly dancing is their mission, and understanding its roots in Old World cultures is one of the most important aspects of their lives, they say.

Today, Dondi is based in San Diego where she primarily dances in Middle Eastern restaurants while not on a foreign junket. She enjoys traveling, even if it's to some of the world's political hotspots.

Dondi Dahlin in one of her costumes.




"I'm interested in totally immersing myself in a culture," she said. "I'm prideful to be an American, but for me it's important to understand how people live in other parts of the world."

She refuses to take unnecessary risks. Dondi is furnished with a bodyguard while on overseas contracts, and she knows what areas in each foreign country or city she should avoid.

While on her latest trip in Jordan, her agent promoted Dondi at the Regency Palace as a "Brazilian belly dancer" because of her olive skin, instead of tipping off anyone through the local press that an American was dancing in the capital.

"But I was treated like a queen in Amman. It's like you're a movie star," she said. "Eighty percent of the people in Amman are Palestinian and they were warm and kind. But one of my good Palestinian friends said to me while I was there, `To see a fair-skinned, light-eyed girl belly dancing is like an alien dancing in front of us.'"

However, Dondi has honed her craft so well that locals in Middle Eastern countries have praised her work, she said.

She has succeeded so much that her client list around the world includes Omar Sharif, Jimmy Buffet and Peter Fonda, according to her Web site.

She strives to overcome the American misconceptions about belly dancing, fostered by years of overly erotic scenes from movies and television shows, she said.

However, Dondi has received offers of diamond necklaces and room keys to large amounts of cash while performing at some locations, but she maintains a strict adherence to her art, she says.

"In some places, where women from Romania and other parts of the world are coming in to belly dance there is a lot of money to be made not just belly dancing," she said. "It's all getting mixed up."




Titanya sees herself as the teacher of the craft. She owns the Nightingale and Rose performing arts company in Boulder, Colo., where her one-woman production, "Scheherazade - The Veil Behind the Blade," an adaptation of "Arabian Nights," has played to sold-out crowds since 1993.
"Belly dancing is from the Goddess Times, when women were respected," she said.

In fact, the origins of the dance came from women in villages preparing for childbirth. The movement of the stomach muscles promoted an easy birth, and since then the art form - in most regions - has stayed true to its Old World roots.

Titanya Dahlin strikes a pose

Titanya Dahlin strikes a pose

Photo courtesy titanyadancer.com




And it is in explaining these Old World lessons that Titanya feels her calling, she says.

"I feel like I have a message. I truly feel like a messenger because I believe it is important to help people understand these different cultures through drama.

"This is a craft that draws stories from the ancients. After all, it is considered the oldest form of dance," she said.

The sisters' next big venture in the U.S. is a one-week workshop in Helena, Montana in June 2002. The workshop, held at a resort, will feature Middle Eastern dancing sessions, plus healing workshops which will borrow techniques from the works of the Dahlins' mother.


Ashland Daily Tidings   ~ Tuesday, October 9, 2001




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